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Baby showers —
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In short

What is a baby shower?

A baby shower is a party held to celebrate an expected (or newly arrived) baby and support the parents-to-be, usually with gifts, food, and games. In the US it's most often held in the early third trimester (about 28–32 weeks), hosted by a friend or relative, with a typical guest list of 10–25 and a budget around $150–$600. Modern showers come in many forms — co-ed, sprinkles, sip-and-sees — and traditions vary widely across cultures.

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When to have it

The best week — and why 28–32 is the sweet spot.

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How much it costs

Real 2026 budget tiers, plus a calculator.

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Who hosts & the rules

Decisive etiquette — can mom host? (Yes.)

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How much to spend (gift)

By relationship — friend, coworker, family.

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Types of showers

Sprinkle, co-ed, sip & see, diaper party…

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Traditions worldwide

Godh bharai, sip-and-see, and more.

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No hedging

The questions everyone Googles — answered straight

Can the mom (or her family) host her own baby shower? Yes. Modern etiquette says anyone close to the parents can host — including a sister, mom, or mother-in-law — as long as there's a real reason. The old “family shouldn't host” taboo is outdated. Source: Emily Post Institute
Do you bring a gift to a baby sprinkle? Yes — but smaller. A “sprinkle” (for a second or later baby) is lower-key; think practical consumables like diapers and wipes rather than big-ticket items. See: Types of baby showers

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Baby shower FAQs

What is a baby shower?
A baby shower is a celebration — usually held before the birth — where friends and family gather to welcome a new baby and "shower" the expectant parent(s) with gifts, advice, and support. It typically includes food, games, and gift-opening, and is most often hosted in the early third trimester.
Who is supposed to host a baby shower?
Anyone close to the parents can host. Under modern Emily Post etiquette, even immediate family (a sister, mom, or mother-in-law) may host if there's a legitimate reason — the old "family shouldn't host" rule is outdated.
When should you have a baby shower?
Most are held in the early third trimester, around 28–32 weeks — roughly 8–10 weeks before the due date. That's late enough to celebrate a real bump, early enough to avoid an early arrival.
How much does a baby shower cost?
Most US baby showers cost $150–$600, depending on guest count, food, and venue. Food runs about $4–$10 per guest for DIY or $15–$25 catered. Use our Planner above for a personalized estimate.
How much should you spend on a baby shower gift?
It scales with closeness: $50–$100+ for a close friend or family, $20–$50 for a coworker, $20–$30 for an acquaintance. Group gifts let people combine for a big registry item.